Monday, January 31, 2011

culture shock...

There are some things i definitely took for granted in the good ole U. S. of A. It seems like everything is about 10 time harder in East Asia. Oh, and it takes 3 times as long to do anything! 
Washing a cup takes FOREVER, b/c you have to wash it with soap and tap water, rinse it with boiled water, and then let it dry completely (b/c its not safe to drink from unless its completely dry). So, what's the solution? paper cups :) 
And then there is the process of setting up our apartment. We needed a shelf to put food on in our kitchen (b/c there aren't any counters). So, today we had to take a bus downtown, go through the fruit - veggie -  meat market, down a side alley, and into a shop where the price of the shelf we want depends on how much the owner likes us. Once we had the prized shelf (and veggies, paper towels, a chopping knife, cutting board, etc...) we had to lug it through the market maze, play 'frogger' to cross the busy street (no such thing as pedestrian right of way, they WILL run you over!), wait in the freezing cold for 10 minutes til the bus comes, then shove our way onto the bus (b/c in east asia, shoving is not rude at all) where people stare at us the entire way home (b/c we are foreigners). Since we can only buy as much as we can carry, we keep repeating this over and over.  Some days (like today) it is just draining. The buses, freezing cold, trying to communicate, etc... 
But, there are comforting things. There is a bakery/coffee shop in town that reminds me of home (although the coffee is not nearly as good as o'henry's). There is a river walk that will be gorgeous in the spring and summer. There are locals who are incredibly kind and helpful (when they aren't shoving you out of the way to get on the bus). And when all else fails, there is KFC (dont judge, its the only western restaurant within a 5 hour bus ride). 

hope this gives ya'll a picture of life on the other side of the world :)

Friday, January 28, 2011

In the past 13 days I...

left America...
met Ash in Seoul and just happened to sit next to her on the plane to TP
made some new friends
tried some new foods (caramelized strawberries)
got a cell phone charm to fit in with the East Asians
 carried a lot of luggage through a lot of airports. (and we only missed 1 flight!)
took a few scenic pictures...

saw lots of Spring Festival decorations
took one last flight through northern East Asia to our new city



went to the market
had a chicken thrown in my face

saw our first snow day at the university

Today we got clean drinking water, an electric kettle, wireless internet, bus passes and sim cards for our cell phones. We also had dinner with a new friend! And in the next few days Ash and I will be cleaning our apartment and hopefully making even more East Asia friends.

Sunday, January 16, 2011

Seoul

We just made it to Seoul a little while ago. Everyone from the team has met up in the airport (all 11 of us) and we are waiting on the next flight (it leaves in a little over an hour). The next time ya'll hear from me I will be in "east asia!" Love and miss you all!

Monday, January 10, 2011

'Give Thanks in all Circumstances'

I am thankful for so many things...
  • I am thankful for 3 young girls (a 4th grader, 6th grader, and 10th grader) who jumped to defend the reason I  am going to East Asia when criticism came. Oh for faith like a child!!
  • I am thankful for a friend who drove 6+ hours to visit this past weekend. 

  • I am thankful for friends who threw an "Asia" party (complete with chopsticks, Hello Kitty cake, East Asia Jeopardy", and a mini photo shoot) 
  • I am thankful for each girl in my small group. I am thankful for their encouragement, prayers, support, and friendship. 
  • I am thankful for snow days that gave me 2 extra days to spend with my little sister.
  • I am thankful for that same ice storm that gave me time to read Elizabeth Elliot's "Passion and Purity" (and I highly recommend it!)
  • I am thankful for one last pretty day to run in Jemison Park (silly, but I did pray for it a week ago)
  • I am thankful for my church for the constant reminder that the good news needs to go to the nations.
  • I am thankful for one last time to worship with my faith family (Wednesday at 6:30 PM if anyone want to come)
  • I am thankful that He is preparing me to leave. The past month has not been easy. I have had many fears about leaving home for 6 whole months. To explain this, here is part of an e-mail I sent to a few friends two weeks ago:
In the busy Christmas season I have gotten so comfortable with life here. There are so many good options to fill the time. As it usually happens, the busier I get with good friends and fun plans, the more i want to fill my time with those things. The Lord has graciously provided some amazing community here in bham and I'm just being selfish and don't want to leave it. I think the heaviest thing that has been on my heart the past few weeks is the fear of being all alone. but no worries, I am still planning on boarding that plane :) and here is why...
Christ is sufficient-. He is sufficient in all things, even loneliness. what is more, He is more fulfilling and desirous than any other person or thing on this earth! 
Christ is faithful - even when I am faithless.
Christ is merciful - He knows the frailties of my flesh. He is familiar with all of my weaknesses 
Christ is gracious - He graciously gives us all things pertaining to life and godliness. No good thing does He withhold from him whose walk is blameless! (and I am made righteous through him).
and so, I needed to be reminded that He will not cease to be these things over the next 6 months just because I am somewhere else in the world. In fact, I think I will see these things more and more.

Thank you to those of ya'll who have been praying! He has given me much peace in leaving bham and renewed excitement about going to East Asia!

with all of this said,
I am most thankful for Christ.

Saturday, January 1, 2011

Preparing

2 weeks,
14 days,
330 hours...
You get the picture.... jan 15th is quickly approaching.

I wanted to give ya'll an idea of how I am preparing. But the truth is, that my efforts to prepare are just that... my feeble efforts. Just as is true of salvation, it is not the work I do, but the work God has done and is doing.
My efforts to prepare for 6 months in East Asia will always fall short. That's not to say there aren't tangible things that I should be doing to prepare - like reading and praying and packing. However, it is to say that He alone is the one who prepares us for His work. As I look back over the past 8 months since graduation, it is so clear how his sovereign hand has been working to prepare me for EA...
Let's take working in a coffee shop.I couldn't begin to count the number of time the Spirit brought Phil 2 6 ('In humility count others more significant than yourselves') to mind as I was making espresso, steaming milk, or mopping the floor. God has graciously been teaching me to serve others with a cheerful heart and to work in all things as if I am working for the Lord. And that is exactly what he had taught me to pray for many early morning on the way to work - to make my heart that of a servant, to help me serve others cheerfully and humbly, to help me to work with excellence so that He alone would be glorified.
Now onto babysitting. The Lord has taught me two major things... love and patience. Seriously, I had no clue that in 4 short months I would be so attached to the girls I "chauffer" every afternoon. I'm not a person who gets attached very easily, and here comes the Lord answering a prayer to "teach me to love people like you love people". Oh how faithful he is to the prayers of his children.
Small Group...This was one of the biggest surprises in bham! When I prayed for community in April, God faithfully provided it a week after graduation. What I expected to simply be a small group became friends. Good friends. They have shown me what it means to be part of the body of Christ. I am SO thankful for the Lord's grace shown through them. (and I will miss them dearly over the next 6 months!)

These next two weeks hold lots of things to do. There are tedious things like packing and making sure i have all the necessary paperwork. But then there are painful things like saying goodbyes. As I prepare, pack and say goodbyes, I find comfort in the grace and mercy of my sovereign savior.